We’ve all been on a date and wanted to go never end. Unfortunately for many of us we don’t play our cards right; in this article we will be exploring how to get a girl into bed.

There is a urban myth that says that men want sex for than women. This is not wrong. The fact is both male and female are interested in sex, it is just that a girl doesn’t want to be seen as someone who sleeps around; so they play it subtly. They want you to think that the decision to go to bed with you was spontaneous, impulsive and on the spur of the moment; even if they have been thinking about it all night.

How do you get a girl back to yours? Well there are several ways you can go about this. Don’t just plunge right in and at the beginning of the date suggest that ‘you should come back to mine after this’. Instead test the waters. If she seems into you then at the end of the night you can put forward a proposal. This could be seemingly innocent: “Oh no, the bar is closing. Well I have some wine at my place…”, to the more direct “shall we go somewhere, a bit quieter?”. But try not to be creepy. Hint at sex or something more happening but your main focus should be on the actual premise of which you are getting her back to yours, not what you will do when you get there. This will make her feel relaxed and in a position to choose.

When you do get back to her place you should make her feel as comfortable as possible. Unless the two of you have been all over each other all night don’t just suddenly grab her and move towards the bedroom. Have a drink, strike up a conversation and, again, test the waters. Make sure you sit close to her on your couch or something and make eye contact with her. After a while you should both be moving into each other when you talk.

An important and vital tip here is to stop if you don’t think she is comfortable. There is nothing worse than a guy who doesn’t know how to stop and this will probably mean that you will never get her into bed. After you are both suitable relaxed try to up the tempo and make out with her, if she responds well to this then there is a chance she will take things a step further. Just take it slowly and after a while, if you have treated her right throughout the evening, casually suggest to move things into the bedroom. By following this steps it will show that sex was not always your agenda, just a perfect way to end a perfect night.

Most girls are a bit cautious about going straight to bed with a new partner. This is not because they are not attracted to them or find sex and less appealing it is because they don’t wish to be seen as somewhat of a girl about town. Take things slowly, innocently and casually; by doing this you should hopefully reap the benefits.