Girls can be very stubborn sometimes; in this instalment we will look into the methods you can use to get that hottie to fall for you.

We all like a challenge sometimes, however there are occasions when we wish things were just that little bit easier and romance and dating is certainly one of these occasions. Hopefully this article will give you a better idea of how to help yourself in terms of asking a girl out and increasing the chance that she will say yes.

Become friends first. It may sound very cliché and a bit boring as this will be a long and arduous journey if you choose this route but the rewards will be well worth the wait. This will also give you a great chance to find out if this girl is really the one for you. If you become friends first then it should allow both of you to open up with each other and relax; it will give her a prime opportunity to get to know you a lot better as well away from the stressfulness and uneasiness of a date. By being a good friend to her you are increasing the chances that she will fall for you.

Furthermore being gentlemanly and polite is one of the best ways to a girls heart. Opening a door for her or holding her books (if you are still at school) might not seem like much but it will go a long way in getting her to fall for you. In addition to this, just being generally good natured and nice to her will assist you greatly. This rule also extends to her friends because if you are polite and good mannered to them then they can have a massive influence over her when it comes to going out with you.

Keep the conversation between the two of you intimate and often fun. By this we mean don't bring up subjects like religion or politics etc... more often than not this will end in an argument or disagreement; this is not to say that your topics shouldn't be serious. Have an active interest in her life – family issues, friendships etc... Just don't bring up topics that could be contentious. It is ok to be flirty now and again but don't overdo it, instead drop flirty phrases or compliment her now and again in your conversations to subtly hint that you like her more than a friend rather than just coming out and saying it.

When she starts to trust you and become close to you then this is the time to ask her out. Make sure you do it in person because asking her out online or on the phone is very impersonal and indirect; so make sure you ask her directly.

You should assure that you do this in a reasonable time frame. Waiting too long and you will have missed your chance, but asking her too soon and she will think that you have only became her friend to ask her out. If you pick your moment correctly then all your effort will be rewarded.