Love is a word that stirs up emotions, passion and ardor. We all want to be loved. In this article we will be looking into how to get a girl to go one better than just liking you.

There is a part of all of us that yearns to be loved by a member of the opposite sex; the excitement, passion, pleasure and security are just some benefits to being in love. However getting someone to fall in love with out isn’t easy and there is no blueprint or universal plan that is 100% guaranteed. What this article will do however is to give you some very useful and informative advice that will assist you in your quest for love.

First off don’t set any expectations. By this I mean, don’t start going out with a girl and then set a time limit of say, 3 months for her to fall in love with you. Love cannot be regulated, it is dynamic and individual. By setting yourself any expectation then you are gearing yourself up for a fall. Now that that is out of the way on to the real advice.

Be yourself. This may seem a bit cliché and unoriginal but it is often the best piece of advice available. If you go about flaunting a plastic and inauthentic image then chances are you will be found out at some point and there will be zero chance of the girl loving you is she discovers you are a liar. To find true love she has to love you for who you are. If you are an outgoing, sociable body builder then the girl will love you for being an outgoing, sociable body builder. If you are a quiet, shy computer gamer then the girl will love you for being a quiet, shy computer gamer. Authenticity is everything.

A common mistake that many guys make is playing hard to get. This rarely works, ever. And it certainly doesn’t work if it is love you are after. What it will succeed in doing is make the girl think that you have went off her and she will move on. What you need to do is give her a little space. Don’t some on too heavy or serious right away. Allow you to have some time with her friends etc… if it really is love then this is when she will realize it; as she is away from you she will appreciate how much you mean to her. At the same time don’t break off contact completely; still text her, be a bit flirty, romantic but generally just give her a bit of space.

Will she fall in love with you right away? It isn’t impossible but very unlikely, Love at first sight rarely happens. The best advice is to be yourself; if she is ‘the one’ then she will love you anyway and if she doesn’t then perhaps it is time to move on? There is not timescale as to how long this process takes; it could be a month, 2 months, a year maybe? However if it is going to happen then it will, eventually. Just remember that love is not the be all and end all, plenty of effort is still required for a healthy relationship, love just makes it that little bit easier.